GRANDCHILDREN

I got married at 20, and my wife was 21. Soon after, our first daughter was born. Several years later, our second daughter was born in Israel. When we later came to the United States, we considered having another child, but financially it was not very practical. Life has its seasons, and eventually we began looking forward to the possibility of grandchildren.

Fortunately, we are blessed with one granddaughter. She lives with her parents in Portland, Oregon, and this week, for the first time, she came with her mother to visit us in San Francisco. She is five and three-quarters years young, and spending time with her brought a special feeling that is difficult to describe.

During the three days she stayed with us, I even managed to work from home while enjoying her presence. We took her to some of our favorite places — Golden Gate Park, the ocean, and Cinderella Bakery & Cafe. Every outing became a memory. At home, she drew pictures, played, and simply enjoyed being together with us. Sometimes the greatest joy comes not from grand adventures, but from quiet moments shared.

Some grandparents are fortunate to live close to their children and grandchildren, giving them more opportunities to spend time together. In some families, grandparents even play an active role in helping raise their grandchildren. For others, visits are less frequent, making each moment even more precious.

I count my blessings. In September, when she turns six, we will travel to Portland to celebrate with her. Until then, these joyful days remain in my memory — a reminder of how precious family truly is.

Count your blessings, and thank your children for giving you such a beautiful gift.

The three images that accompany this story are from our granddaughter’s visit.

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