HOW TO SLOW DOWN?
This question was asked of me by an 87-year-young friend.
We first met because he became my client. One day he came into my office to discuss borrowing some money. He owns his home and a rental property. He used to be a doctor, but what is remarkable about him is that he is also a pilot. He owns two airplanes and still flies regularly. As we talked, I asked him about his life. He drives an electric car, and when he travels longer distances, he has to stop for about an hour to recharge it.
“So, what do you do while the car is charging?” I asked. He smiled and said he writes. In fact, he is writing a book.
Later, we talked about getting together again. Friday would not work because he was going dancing. Saturday was impossible because he was singing together with his girlfriend in a group. Sunday he was going to church. Besides that, he flies his planes, works on maintaining his property, and keeps himself busy with countless other activities.
Then he asked me, “What’s your recommendation? How do I slow down?” I laughed and told him, “I don’t have a recommendation because I don’t slow down either. I keep moving and I keep doing things as long as I can.”
My belief is simple: as long as you are doing things, learning, creating, helping others, dancing, singing, flying, writing, or simply enjoying life, it means you are alive.
So, if you ask me how to slow down, I don’t have an answer. My answer is to keep going for as long as you can. Stay healthy. Stay active. Stay curious. If possible, stay wealthy. But most importantly, enjoy life.
This version emphasizes the contrast between my friend’s age and his active lifestyle, making the ending more impactful. He invited me to fly with him, but my wife didn’t think that this was a good idea.
Three of the aerial photographs you can see above were captured from commercial flights on which I was a passenger.
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