HONOR YOUR FATHER
I am writing this story on the third Sunday in June, which, according to my calendar—and a reminder from my wife—is Father’s Day.
The idea for this holiday began in 1910 when a woman named Sonora Smart Dodd decided to honor her father. After her mother died, he raised Sonora and her five siblings by himself. It took until 1972 for President Nixon to sign Father’s Day into law as a national holiday. But the idea of honoring fathers started much, much earlier.
More than 3,300 years ago, when the Torah was given to the former slaves, after they left Egypt, the Fifth Commandment instructed us: “Honor your father and your mother.” It comes immediately after the commandment to keep the Sabbath. This teaching is repeated again in the Torah.
So, what does it mean to honor your father and mother? Do we need to wait for one special day each year? Is it an obligation, a duty, or a feeling that comes from the heart? After all, your father and mother gave you life. Isn’t it natural to honor them?
My father passed away many years ago. During the later part of my parents’ lives, they lived in Israel while we were here in San Francisco. Every Sunday, I would call them and ask how they were doing. My father would tell me what happened during the week.
One day he told me he had gone to the doctor. I asked what the doctor had said. “The doctor told me I don’t have it,” my father replied. “Don’t have what?” I asked. Then, I heard him asking my mother: “What doctor said I don’t have? “Dementia,” she said.
It sounds almost like a joke, but I still smile when I remember that conversation. I miss those Sunday calls. When Sunday comes around, I often think about them.
You don’t have to wait for a special day once a year to honor your parents. If you are fortunate enough to still have your father around, think about him. Give him a call. Ask how he is doing. You will both feel better afterward.
By the time you read this, Father’s Day will already be over. But it is never too late to honor your father—and your mother.
Three images inside this story show you different fathers.
Happy Father’s Day, every day!


























