Why Do We Need Children?

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Why Do We Need Children?

 

The Wall Street Journal, (among other newspapers), recently published a story titled, “China’s Leadership Scrap One-Child Policy”. Now some families in China can have two children. China has the largest population in the world – 1.37 billion. In the past, families in China had many children (in 1950 there was an average of 6 children per family). In the Chinese society, where there is no social security, parents depend on the care of their children in their old age. But today, when economic opportunities allow people to work more to keep up with their neighbors, young Chinese people feel that they cannot afford to have more children. This problem is not unique to China. I recently read an article that young people in Cuba do not want to start families and have children, because it is not economically possible.

It is generally believed that in Arab countries families have more children, probably for the same reason it happened in China in the past. But in countries like Saudi Arabia, there are 1.2 children per family (similar to what China has now). The rest of the developed world is experiencing the same phenomenon – a drop of the childbirth. This becomes a huge problem in countries like Japan as well as in Western Europe.

I speculate that the reason Germany recently decided to accept such a large number of refugees was strictly driven by economic considerations. After all, they had relative success with the Turkish workers, who had been living in Germany since the 1960s (In recent municipal elections a man who was born to Turkish parents ran for the Mayor of Berlin). The question remains, “Why do we need children?” In the Torah, after the flood, “God blessed Noah and his sons, and He said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the land” (Genesis 9:1). At least there was a very specific purpose – to fill the land. But now when it seems that we have fulfilled this commandment, what’s next? In 1798 the reverend Thomas Robert Malthus wrote an “Essay on the Principle of Population”; his point was that if the population continues to grow, the earth would not be able to produce enough food to support the expansion. The history demonstrated that his theory was just a theory. In 1798 the world population was 800 million (which was the number of people in China in 1970). The world population is approaching seven billion. Who is going to produce and feed all of those people in the next generations? African countries’ economies are growing and their childbirth survivorship is increasing.

The new book, “A Mighty Purpose” by Adam Fifield is a biography of James P. Grant, the director of United Nations Children’s Fund (Unicef), who died in 1995. Thanks to his efforts, the mortality of children dropped from an average of 23% before they reached their fifth birthdays in 1960 in the low-and middle-income countries to an average 5% today. It might be that in the near future Chinese companies will set their production in Africa. Whatever the reason is, it is good to have children.

P.S. When we visited Cuba in 2013, I photographed many children.  One of the reasons that separates children from grown-ups is that they always play.  As you can see in my images.

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We Love Paris

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We Love Paris

 

At the end of the day on Friday, the 13th of November, I called a client to discuss her mortgage. Before I was able to tell her anything she blurted out, “Did you call your daughter in Paris?” That is how and when I first learned about the massacre. Our daughter Alona, who lives in Paris, was in New York on business on this day. Alona was naturally shaken by the devastating news, but is OK!

When events like this happen far from home, it is very difficult to completely relate to the scope of the tragedy. Every morning when I open the newspaper, there are articles upon articles about how many people are killed or injured in different parts of the world. Would it change anything if I did not look through the paper, as though I’m on vacation, when I do not typically read the news? Of course it would not. On Sunday, my wife Elfa and I went to see Steven Spielberg’s latest film, “Bridge of Spies”. When attorney James D. Donovan (played by Tom Hanks) asks Russian spy Rudolf Abel (played by Mark Rylance):”Don’t you worry?” He answers, “Does it help?”

Many people primarily worry about the unknown; things that are either real or imaginative. They often project the worst outcome just reading something in the paper. When Palestinian terrorists attacked and killed Israeli civilians with kitchen knives last month, the population started to carry guns, in self-defense. Israelis also attacked and killed an innocent person, whom they suspected to be a terrorist. Unfortunately, too often we read in the news about police killing innocent African Americans. Yes, Black Lives Matter. But can we stop the violence? Maybe it sounds naïve, but one thought of how not to attach ourselves to negativity is to rather do or read something that would bring a smile on our faces. Over the weekend, I was out on the streets photographing, when I encountered a young French woman, who came to San Francisco with her personal project. She travels the world asking strangers on the streets what makes them happy. Sometimes she just carries a big yellow sign that reads, “Smile”. She photographs people and posts their images and responses on her blog. We all have choices. If you can, choose to smile.

P.S. In spite of the tragedy in Paris and other parts of the world, for many in San Francisco life continues like nothing happened. People are overwhelmed with their own small and big issues. As long as we keep smiling to life, like people I’ve encountered on that day, most of the pains will heal.

 

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The Joy Of Anticipation

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The Joy of Anticipation

 

It is Tuesday morning, November 3rd, Election Day. I just came back from my rendezvous with the rising sun. Last week I wrote that due to the daytime savings time change I missed the opportunity. Since I did not want this to happen again, I went to bed last night at 9pm and got up at 5am. I had enough time for my morning routine and after leaving home while it was still dark; I was on the top of Mount Davidson by 6am. It was still twilight. On the horizon, I could see the hills on the other side of the Bay, darkness was changing into light, but I knew I had to wait. It was chilly. My body, which was warmed up from the fast walk uphill, started to get cold, but I came here for the purpose to greet his majesty, the Sun. The sky was clear with two bright stars above me (later on I heard on the radio that it was probably Venus or Jupiter). The half moon was shined on the other side, which looked like it was just walking distance from the stars. From time to time, airplanes lifted off from San Francisco and Oakland airports and flew in different directions. Even small robins that usually peak from the ground, seemed like they were still asleep. The only sounds I could hear was a constant roar from far away. I just stood and observed the changing light, and from time to time, I lifted my camera to capture a moment. When I looked down on the ground I noticed a small black square. I lifted it up and saw it was a pendant with a beautiful image of a small flower. Someone lost it or left it for me. Later on I noticed the open chain it fell from. The scene was very serene and meditative.

Recently, someone asked me how to meditate. I know of a few different ways. I often meditate in the morning. Whenever I wake up early enough. I sit for 15 minutes with my eyes closed eyes and listen to a guided meditation recording. I found out that being at the top of a mountain waiting for 40 minutes for the sun to rise, is the best form of meditation. Simply being in the moment, and knowing that regardless of what will happen in the world, or which proposition is going to pass on elections, the sun will come up and the light will replace the darkness. I like the words in a poem written by the Russian poet Vladimir Soloukhin, “Everything is happening in life first time: the first love and first departure”, and the poet lists other things which we experience for the first time, and then asks the question, “Then what is left?” and answers, “The joy of the anticipation”.

I’ve been to the top of Mount Davidson countless times, and have seen and photographed the sunrise. But every time I am here, or any place where I can observe the magic of the sun coming out, I experience the joy of the anticipation.

P.S. My photographs cannot convey the feeling. You have to come here to have your own experience of anticipation. As I offered in the past, you are welcome to join me, just be ready to get up early. Meanwhile enjoy and share.

 

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Are You An Optimist?

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Are You An Optimist?

 

The pessimist claims that “things cannot be worse”, the optimist responds, “of course, they can”. There are many stories about optimists and pessimists. One of them describes how much water is in the cup. The optimist says the cup is half full, while the pessimist claims that it is half empty. I think that even staunch optimists have their moments of doubt. But then there is another way of thinking and being. Some people just know without any doubts that everything is going to be alright. It is well demonstrated in the Talmud story describing Nahum Ish Gamzu. Regardless what was happening, his response was “gam zu le-tovah”, meaning “this too is for the best”.

Years ago, I heard the story about a man who had a similar attitude. He had a beautiful horse. One day, the horse ran away. All of the neighbors had pity on him, and his response was, “We shall see”. A few days later, the horse returned with a herd of wild horses. The neighbors expressed how lucky he was. The man responded, “We shall see”. His only son tried to mount the wild horse, fell down and broke his leg. The neighbors had pity on the man. But the man just said, “We shall see”. Soon after, war broke out and military recruiters came to the village and collected all abled young men leaving the boy with the broken leg behind. After the war ended, many were killed, but the boy was alive with a healed leg.

In our family, my wife Elfa is a realist – she analyzes all of the possibilities, and tries to protect us from negative outcomes.

When we drive somewhere and are looking for a parking space, she uses a special “parking” prayer. My attitude is different. I do not think or worry about finding a parking space. And frequently, when we get to our destination, someone pulls out and gives us the spot (perhaps Elfa’s prayers help?).

I do not think about the cup being full or empty. I just know when I am thirsty there is going to be water. Perhaps this is why to the question “How are you?” my answer is “Always good.”

We recently closed a loan for clients, who inherited their home. The wife does not work, and the husband was in between jobs when we met, with a bunch of late payments and collections and a credit score of 512. At the beginning, I had no idea how I could help them. But just believing that everything would be alright, I found a creative solution and saved them from losing their home to foreclosure and in a few months will arrange a reverse mortgage, which will help them to keep it.

When I started writing this story, I had no idea which images I would use to accompany it. It was 7 am, and it was dark outside. By the time I finished writing, I looked outside, and saw a blue sky. The meteorologist told us that it is going to be raining. Though we need rain, I was very happy to stay dry today. For me knowing that regardless of an expert’s prediction, every morning the sun will come out (even if we do not see it), makes me happy. This is probably why I like to photograph sunrises.

P.S. On Sunday morning I was planning to go up Mount Davidson, to photograph the sunrise. Because of the time change, I was half an hour late. The sun was already up and the fog was rolling in. This gave me an opportunity to photograph sunrise in a completely different light. Enjoy and share.

 

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