What Dogs and Children Have in Common

In the story you received from me a few weeks ago, I wrote about my experience with the pets that we’ve had over the years. A number of my readers sent me their comments, primarily sharing their pet stories. One response was different. My friend Gloria, who among her other talents, trains dogs, remarked that there are no bad dogs who misbehave, but rather owners who do not know how to take care of their animals, who are supposed to be our best friends. When we spoke on the phone, Gloria pointed out that a similar problem exists between parents and children.

This got me thinking. She is one hundred percent right. In our family, as probably many of my readers have pets and/or children for our own pleasure without taking the responsibility to educate ourselves on how to act and behave with those in our care. As a result, we have “misbehaving” dogs, who bark all the time, or we have children who drive us crazy. All of my stories about our experiences with our cats and dogs confirm this. How about our children? We are blessed with two wonderful daughters with whom we have a great relationship. However, they have pointed out to us that if we would be stricter, and more present as parents (I have always worked long hours), their lives could be different. But how can we learn? As far as pets are concerned, there are number of venues where your loving creature can be trained. The best ones start with training the owners. Before getting a new pet or even if you already have one, read Cesar Millan’s, “Short Guide to a Happy Dog” as well as “Cesar’s Way” and check out his videos.

With children, I think, the answer is more complicated. Among other things, sometimes there is a conflict between parents and grandparents, who now have more time and want to spoil their grandchildren. Our daughters were privileged to grow up with their grandmother Masha, who lived with us until her passing. I remember her complaining about Alona doing her homework while sitting on the floor, or about her messy room. My mother-in-law has passed, but she was part of what made our daughters who they are now – good people. I am sure that there are many books related to how to bring up children. I know about “Baby and Child Care” by Dr. Benjamin McLane Spock. He was an American Pediatrician, whose book, which was published in 1946, is one of the best –sellers of all time as well Bringing Up Bébé by Pamela Druckerman. Enjoy and Share.

P.S. I’m writing this story in Los Angeles, while visiting our daughter Tamar and soon to be (September 16th) son-in-law, David. During our visit, they had a companion – a dachshund named Gary, whom they were dog-sitting for friends. My images of Gary and children were taken during this trip. Next week, I will write more about our LA experience.

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